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By Claudia Hehr*
Animals are the most
wonderful and precious friends we can ever have or wish for. But
sometimes those wonderful friends have or can develop a special need.
A cat, dog, or any animal can develop special needs at any time. Those
special needs can be visible or invisible, and can range from mild
hearing loss to total immobility. The special need can come on
suddenly, such as an accident or a stroke, or can develop over a period
of time, such as development of cataracts. Some conditions of aging can
also be included in special needs. A special need can be temporary,
such as recovering from surgery, or permanent, like arthritis due to
hip dysplasia.
The good news is that, just like us,
cats and all other animals with special needs can still lead happy and
fulfilling lives. Just because a cat can't climb or jump up on
furniture anymore or might have trouble hearing or seeing, that doesn't
mean he or she is not able to enjoy life anymore. Our friends just need
a bit of help and encouragement.
Depending on our
animal companions' issues, there are many simple things we can do to
make our friends' lives more comfortable and give them back the
dignity and respect they deserve.For example:
- situating the food and water bowl beside our animal companion's favorite resting place will help avoid unnecessary movement
- placing stepping stools or ramps will help our best friends get on and off furniture safely, easily, and comfortably,
- putting
carpets on slippery floors so our animal companions can walk with
confidence and don't have to worry about slipping and hurting
themselves,
- adding more litter boxes, especially in multi-level homes, so the cat can avoid stairs
But no matter what our animal companion's special needs are, the most
important thing to realize is that animals have feelings, too. Animals
have the same emotions as humans, such as joy, happiness,
embarrassment, sorrow, sadness and many more, which means that laughing
at them when they are trying to climb stairs, or making thoughtless
comments such as: "This is an old cat and should be put down" or "Your
cat is too fat" can have a very negative impact. Hera, who
I have the honor of sharing my life with for almost twelve years, is my
soulmate and dog companion.To honor Hera and everything she has been
going through in her life, I decided to raise awareness for animals
with special needs. I want to help those beautiful souls be accepted in
society, and be able to go and do anything a non-special needs animals
is doing without having to endure hurtful remarks. Hera was
diagnosed with hip dysplasia 11 years ago, and underwent three
reconstructive hip surgeries. She was also diagnosed with Addison's
disease at the age of four. Shortly after that, Hera started having
trouble walking again. I wanted to help my best friend enjoy her life
to the fullest and the things she likes to do, such as going for walks,
spending time in the park and meeting friends. So I decided to get her
a wagon. When I first got it, Hera was so happy and excited
and could hardly wait to try it out. During our first walk, however, we
met some people who laughed at her, pointed fingers and making some
very unkind remarks. The next day the same thing happened, and on the
third day, I couldn't persuade Hera to get into her wagon at all.
Because I am an animal communicator I was able to ask her why she
didn't want to use her cart anymore and Hera told me how embarrassed
and deeply hurt she was by what people had been saying about her. The
wagon that was supposed to bring my best friend happiness and a new
opportunity of life had turned out to be the source of dismay; and Hera
became sad, quiet, almost withdrawn, I didn't want to give up being
able to give Hera her life back, and six months later I found a cart
that gives Hera more privacy. We have been using it now for more than
six years and it's been wonderful. Because it gives Hera so much
security to have the cart with her, she walks that much further when we
are out.
Let's encourage our animal friends with special needs when they are
trying to exercise or trying to do something. Please, acknowledge and
support him or her with a kind word. Many people have health or
age-related problems and still lead full, happy and satisfying lives.
Let our animal friends have the same chance. Let's help them to enjoy
their lives to the fullest, too.
To find out more about animals with special needs please visit www.claudiahehr.com, or call 416-413-7671. |